The most common mistake couples in crisis make is seeking help when it is too late. So what are the signs you may need counselling?
* You keep having the same arguments.
A therapist could help you both to understand why you have these arguments and help resolve these to stop them re-occurring
* You have stopped being intimate.
Counselling can help uncover the reasons for the lack of physical closeness and help get this part of your relationship back on track
* You find fault in everything your partner does.
Sometimes resentment can be at the route of many issues, counselling can help both people overcome this and rebuild a healthy relationship
* You lead separate lives.
A therapist can help you to reconnect with your partner and remind you of why you fell in love in the first place
* You don't trust your partner.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship and if this is missing it will need help and support to be restored
* You argue about money.
Money is the cause of many relationship breakdowns, often because we have different beliefs, counselling can help you understand things from your partners perspective to gain insight and resolve your issues.
* You feel your partner doesn't listen to you.
Communication is key to a healthy relationship, and is a two way process, counselling can help you both improve your communication skills
* You are thinking of having an affair.
Social Media has made it easier than ever to cheat, relationship counselling can help you explore what you feel is missing in your relationship and help you solve the problem.
Having worked for Relate for a number of years I am a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor working with Individuals and Couples from a relationship perspective.
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First Session Free - Fees
I offer private face-to-face sessions which last for 50 minutes and are usually held on a weekly basis. We can agree together to work on either a short term or open-ended basis.
I offer the first session free so we can meet and for you to see if I am the right counsellor for you. Following this each session is £55.